I’m looking for info/advice on how best to go about getting what I think I need A few decades ago I was diagnosed under active Thyroid and Depression in the last7 years I’ve been diagnosed with Peripheral Neuropathy [Mixed sensory and motor], high blood pressure, Type 2 Diabetes, High cloistral, Leg cramps, lymphedema of the legs, Leg Ulcers, Cellulitis, Osteoarthritis and Gallstones. Now they are trying to find out why my spleen is nearly twice the size it should be.
l‘ve lived with a sibling for 50 years and through the late 1980s and the 1990s this person did most of the caring for or mother who had dementia. Before my sibling had a change to fully recover they began doing thing for me {caring}, over the intervening years my sibling has been doing more and more for me and now its effecting their health was recently was diagnosed with MG [Myasthenia Gravis, which I believe is similar to Parkinson’s] at times they have trouble with talking, seeing, walking etc. we both think that living with me and caring for make the mg worse.
I don’t know for sure but my mobility is decreasing and I suspect that one day I’ll end up in a wheelchair so I’ve been thinking about shelter housing for both of us not together but a door or two apart, this should solve a lot of problems. I believe us living apart will encourage me to try doing more things for myself and with my sibling living close if I should need help theirs there. I don’t trust easily and having my sibling nearby makes me feel safer and more secure.
We are secure council tennets. i've been searching the net and the ones i've seen say you need to be 55 and neither of us are
Any advice on achieving this would be very welcome
bern