Hello everyone. I am posting here I have read this forum for a while but never really registered. I am 20 years old 21 next month and I have asperger's syndrome.
I have received DLA since 1997 and have been living in my own place since 2011 when it was difficult at home due to my stepdad. Middle rate care, low rate mobility.
My mother gave me much support over the years, along with two friends although I do not mix socially without them.
Over the years, I have slowly improved on the mobility aspect, I can go familiar places without harm or anxiety but unfamiliar places I am still working on.
In terms of care i had family and friends support on constantly nagging me to eat, reminding me to wash :/ and also their support with budgeting and helping mix with others as i will not* without them. I go as far as using self service checkouts to avoid this contact.
My mother passed away in 2013 and this set me back a long way. Was living in a flat with a leaky roof and mold but we moved just before my negative pip decision to somewhere nice closer to my aunt who I have always been close to.
So the PIP form comes as I am in a PIP area in june this year. We fill it out describing my difficulties and send it off complete with letters from my family and friends and my pediatricians report from a couple of years ago.
We had a face to face assessment and my aunt went with me. I was calm that day having been assured it would be okay and we told her my difficulties and she seemed nice.
We went away feeling that well i should get it no problem.
Decision comes... ZERO points. In an instant, my working tax credits gone, DLA gone, unable to get a disabled persons railcard which was coming up for renewal, and my small writing business gone in a flash as the loss of income lead to me prioritizing the rent above my server hosting for my website. Plus the state it left me in had me finish work for clients and then being unable to intermingle with them any more due to the stress caused. I have gastric issues also and that didnt help. further letters of support and copies of medical records detailing Gp visits and letters mentioning social difficulties etc were sent. MR... zero points again.
This is where i really lost it. I have been receiving counselling and did contemplate suicide at some point... but then that would waste all the years my mum had raised me... So with the help of my friends I wrote a detailed description of my difficulties and how it compared to each descriptor, understand why i hadnt received points for verbal, and possibly for mobility but expected points on everything else apart from toilet needs and moving around which we marked as good. We sent this to the tribunal, along with a GP letter that was filled out for disabled student's allowance as he described my difficulties and recommended i copy it for the tribunal too which has since been approved as I am going back to college in the hopes of getting some social skills... I am petrified but it might help to slowly get back into these situations. If i have the assessment before the tribunal date the DSA assessment could help me further too. We highlighted on the medial records we sent to the DWP points of interest going back a couple of years to present day. They had a copy of my asperger's diagnosis.
The assessment report and the DM was going on the fact I was calm, although she had noted what we said, but it was all marked as no in the checkboxes. Worse still, the fact I was polite seemed to have gone against me as well and the fact I had insight into my condition, who wouldn't! Unless they had a serious cognitive problem.
I have also based on some stuff I have read here, written a formal complaint to the DWP on how this has been handled, and the difficulties it has caused me although the people on the phone were always polite and helpful but have no power to overturn decisions. My friend has his sister who has a life threatening heart condition wait for 10 months for an ESA assessment, and he went to our MP to intervene, he recommended I do the same, so I have contacted my MP as well. In my DWP complaint I have asked them to yet again take a look at it and for an apology and to review their internal practices and to carefully consider the words of my family and friends and GP so i do not have to go through the indignation of going to the tribunal which I am really nervous about. The thought gives me shivers so I opted for a paper hearing although changed it to oral when i heard of the low success rate of paper hearings. Waiting on a date....
Is there anything more i should do from here?
Thanks so much for any help...
Jacob