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    TheAmazingAtheist
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    Severe sexual issue!

    Well I'm not looking for any advices or anything but if you want to give advice then feel free, just that I rather tell how I feel to make me feel a little better.

    Don't laugh because this is pretty serious. I always feel the need to have sex all the time and yes I do go to swingers parties with fetishes all the time with my husband using condoms for protection just for a lot of relief. But the relief is very short and always have the feeling for more and more. I admit I do enjoy it but when I don't do anything for a few days I get this horrible withdrawal symptoms and I can't relief myself watching pornographic stuffs because I would feel jealous and can't have sex all the time with my husband otherwise it would hurt him eventually and he get bored of sex. Maybe aspergers causes very high testosterone? I am 30 years old and still I got this sexual feeling like a young person has. Sex has become very addictive!

    Most of the time I get left with a lot of sexual pain still and it sometimes feels horrible. I get these mood swings ranging from aggression to depression.

    I tried dealing with this issue myself:

    I train hard lifting in the gym for an hour.
    I do lot's of hobbies I enjoy doing.
    Spend time with my family with my husband.

    I exercise but I recover so fast and I am full of energy again. I tried everything in the book. I guess the only thing is I wait till I get older which hopefully it calm down my hormone levels etc... yes sex thing is great but sometimes it's very difficult to overcome these symptoms of sexual withdrawl.

    Also me and my husband are in open relationship thing and it's the only thing that works well for us Two. Closed would kill us both pretty much.

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    May i recommend www.fetlife.com Plenty of like minded folks on there. I would get yourself checked regularly for STD's if your into the poly lifestyle.
    Meanwhile, i'm judging from the post your female...vibrators, sure you know there are some excellent ones out there.

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    TheAmazingAtheist
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    Quote Originally Posted by reddivine View Post
    May i recommend www.fetlife.com Plenty of like minded folks on there. I would get yourself checked regularly for STD's if your into the poly lifestyle.
    Meanwhile, i'm judging from the post your female...vibrators, sure you know there are some excellent ones out there.
    I don't think judging is right because actually I am a male in same sex marriage and I get tested every year and wear condoms. So I always come back clean, no STDS.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheAmazingAtheist View Post
    I don't think judging is right because actually I am a male in same sex marriage and I get tested every year and wear condoms. So I always come back clean, no STDS.
    reddivne was not "judging" you or your lifestyle. She was just offering some practical advice.

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    Well maybe not vibrators, but there ARE some fascinating sex toys, which if u are into kinky....and as rich-ward says Not judging AT ALL.
    Seriously, fetlife is free, friendly and there are various interest groups.

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    TheAmazingAtheist
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    Quote Originally Posted by reddivine View Post
    Well maybe not vibrators, but there ARE some fascinating sex toys, which if u are into kinky....and as rich-ward says Not judging AT ALL.
    Seriously, fetlife is free, friendly and there are various interest groups.
    I dunno I wish that I am not so sexually active all the time. Just that I am hoping when I get older like in my 40s maybe calm down and feel better. I still feel like someone in there 20s and I am a 30 year old.

    In the past I was never this sexually active. I been in many care homes and supported living places etc... and I was a virgin. But since I moved out and got a place of my own by age 25 is when the addiction first began. I am starting to think that due to losing virginity very late maybe that's the problem psychologically? Just that I didn't have any independence for a long time and having no freedom in the outside world caused all this built up frustration. I had a lot of anger issues in the past.

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    TheAmazingAtheist
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    Quote Originally Posted by rich-ward View Post
    reddivne was not "judging" you or your lifestyle. She was just offering some practical advice.
    I know that. It was only just a little judging thinking I am female. Some people don't understand but it's fine =)

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    Yeah should not have assumed...just saw the "my husband" and ...fell into the trap. I apologise.

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    HI AA
    Have any of your bodybuilding supplements got any testosterone boosters in them or do you use any amino acid type pumps as I read an ariticle that amino acid can increase sexual appitite (my son is bodybuilding and he's only young so I buy his whey to make sure theres nowt dodgy in it )

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    I'll gladly take some of your problem on My mental health meds have the totally opposite effect
    I am just thankful I have a wonderful understanding and loving wife

    Hope you can get some help ... and relief

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